He got married, he had children. He has a neighbor and he has a job. He fights his wife for not following the template he asked her to follow; he scolds his child for not behaving like the way he wants them to. In all their family meetings, he says always, I want my family to be doing things and behave the same way our neighbor do their things. Then his wife yelled at him and said Be Yourself.
Yeah, be yourself. We are in a world where everyone wants to be like everybody. A world where, social media life is preferred rather than physical life. A world where, people dont know the sacrifice those they are willing to be like has paid, but just want to be like them.
Why be somebody else, instead of being yourself? Being somebody else is like, acting a role in of somebody in a play or drama. While acting the role, you make effort to be somebody else at the expense of being yourself. Consider the amount of time, you used to think or how to walk like they are walking, how to do this as they are doing that. Isnt it stressful?
In this life, theres always a space for everybody because, we all have a purpose in this life to do something in this world. So when you are not yourself, what happens to the plans or mission that was given to you?
Lets assume our comedian werent themselves and became navy, and our soldiers became comedian. Though some of them could have a little potential in them, but if they didnt train themselves would it have been better?
We gat to train ourselves to be who we want to be. You have to take that step, that courage to be the real you. Though it might be difficult but you just have to try. It takes courage and love to be oneself for everyone is special in his own way.
Hummm. May Almighty God help us to be ourselves.
ReplyDeleteIt's challenging tho